It's all about choice. Everything is about choice. We can't change everything, but you can always change something.
If you don't like, for example the things that you face in a particular job, and these aren't things you can change - and it winds you up. Surely you chose to either change how you react or approach the issue, or you chose to do something different.
Finding the strength to change the things you can, accept the things you can't - and the wisdom to know the difference.
If someone shows you a way to do something, how you need to look at or carry out a task, and you chose to not do it the way you've been shown, then do you not also chose to accept any consequences from your choice ?
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